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What Women Expect From Men
It may be cliche but allow me to say it, men are from Mars and women are from Venus. And just the same, we are all different people with different views and opinions, thus we have different expectations. But what do women expect from men and what are the things that they usually want in a relationship?
Time
Women want to feel important and once they are committed in a relationship, they don't stop planning their lives ahead with complete names for children or an ideal house. A guy should commit to spend time with their girl more than they do with their friends and vices. Just the same, the guy should give enough freedom for his girl to do things on her own or with her girl friends and family.
Honesty and openness
A woman is either afraid of being lied at or overly confident that she would often doubt her man. A man should make it a point to share things with his partner, to return her messages when she asks things, to answer her questions even if it's the "did I gain weight" question or the "is she prettier than me" question. Allow her to know what you are thinking. Women feel confident and proud of their men if they admit what's wrong and whatever it is that bothers them.
Feeling of security
A man does not need to build-up his muscles to make his girl feel safe. Security could mean being financially secure, emotionally secure, or a worry-free relationship. Be a grown-up and stand-up for her. Most women like it when their guys lead the way and have ways to protect her. Note that, not all women are the same. In married couples, the man always makes sure that the wife has something to put up in the table for a complete meal. Be there for her in the toughest and most difficult times even when she's the problem, try to bear with it.
Tender loving care
All girls always love being taken-cared and being treated special. Guys should check on their girls from time to time even if there is now reason. Visit her even when she's not sick and spend time doing things for her like cooking her favorite dish and fixing her things. Girls who grew-up without their fathers usually look for guys who are older than them. This is because they long for a father-figure, thus, they demand more care and attention.
Do unexpected things for her
Girls expect too much from guys sometimes that they get disappointed plenty of times too. Doing things unexpectedly would light up her mood and make her feel loved. Kiss her for no reason or bring her to an expensive restaurant once in a while. Long-time couples sometimes feel too comfortable and ordinary, bringing the girl to a date and reliving the days of courtship is a sweet way to make her know that she’s still that special. Write a letter for her even if it's not your style just ones.
Women are truly different from men but when it comes down to it all, we all just want to be loved.
Sometimes it's the smallest things and gestures that could bring great differences. Source: http://www.lovetips.com/what-women-expect-from-men.shtml
What Men Expect From Women
Women are often perplexed in their efforts to figure out what men really need to be happy and contented. At the end of the day, Eve's daughters simply shake their heads, shrug their shoulders, and tell themselves that men will always be a complex mystery.
Men expect women to communicate their thoughts and feelings directly and honestly.
Men don't like it when women make them second-guess their actions. They expect their partner to express herself truthfully, and to verbalize her thoughts and feelings to help him understand her better. They don't like playing emotional charades. If his lady has certain needs and wants that he must fulfill, a man wants to know it straight from her. However, men prefer a gentle, kind and loving way of communication. It will never do to be demanding, whining, and critical of him.
Men expect women to be strong, independent, and self-sufficient.
Men are attracted to confident women. Although a loving relationship is defined by sharing your life with your partner, it is still healthy to maintain a separate identity and not lose your own self. A woman should maintain her own interests, activities, and set of friends. The last thing that she should be is a clingy partner, who cannot function on her own if separated from her man. However, there should still be a balance to this, because men also want to feel needed. Being too independent may make a man fear that his partner is no longer truly committed to him.
Men expect women to be faithful and devoted.
Another common misconception is that men are more likely to commit infidelity in a relationship, so it often the women who are heard as saying that they wished their man would be more faithful and devoted. In reality, no man would want to be cheated and betrayed by his girl as well. When a man is in a relationship, he expects his partner to be committed and willing to make the relationship work out.
Men expect women to know how to treat them right.
Treating them right means knowing how to make them feel good. Men have a need to be praised, appreciated, and supported in their opinions. Stroking his ego once in a while would do him good, as long as it’s done sincerely and not in a patronizing way.
No matter how they resent being baffled by the riddle that is men, towards the end, women still try their best to understand and live in harmony with them. After all, the situation is fairly mutual. Women also have their own set of behaviors that puzzle men to no end.
Source: http://www.lovetips.com/what-men-expect-from-women.shtml
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AGREE OR DISAGREE to these statements is up to you.
AGREE OR DISAGREE to these statements is up to you.
Women are truly different from men but when it comes down to it all, we all just want to be loved.
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agree!! :)
once you fall in love with someone, you'll just know what to do..
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